My Wednesday morning School for Contemplative Living group is continuing the study of Grateful by Diana Butler Bass, a book about which I previously posted. The title of the assigned chapter this week is Grateful Together. Without reading more than those two words, I got to thinking in a new direction –
I thought of the group that I have met with each Wednesday morning for the last 18 months. I thought about each of the 8 -10 individuals in the group and how I met most of them through the Wednesday morning meeting. I thought about how my experience with these fellow pilgrims greatly enhances my own life, not just as a collective group, but as individuals as well. I mentally went around the group circle and was able to readily articulate in my head how the relationship with each of these individuals contributes to my total being today. That is, were any one of these individuals not in our Wednesday morning group, my life would be less than it is today.
I then expanded the circle to include my wife, family, friends, and colleagues over the years. With each individual I explored how the relationship is integral to who I am today. I thought of a get-together last week with a half-dozen former co-workers from when I worked at American Tool and was active in the United Steelworkers of America over 35 years ago. We had not seen each other since we were laid off in the economic downturn of the early 1980s. While we sat and reminisced last week, I thought of how my relationship with those specific individuals forged a perspective on community responsibility that I carry with me to this day.
Grateful Together goes beyond just the we when speaking of a 12-Step meeting of AA, church congregation, disaster relief team, or other group. Rather, I am grateful for and acknowledge the value of each individual (human and canine) with whom I exist in this luminous web of life.
Who are you grateful for today?